Specialized investigations · South Dakota
Unmarried Partner Infidelity Investigations in South Dakota
You do not need a marriage license to be deceived. If the person you live with, share a child with or plan to marry may be seeing someone else, Delator Group assigns professional investigators in South Dakota to document the truth lawfully, quietly and on a written scope, so your next decision rests on facts.
- For couples who live together or co-parent
- Engagement and fiance vetting available
- $100 per hour, scope confirmed first
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Quick answer
Can I hire an investigator if we are not married?
Yes. Relationship status does not change what lawful surveillance can document. We observe a partner from public places, identify the people they meet and research records, all within South Dakota's recording, stalking and trespass limits. Field work is $100 per hour, and our background research on a new partner starts at $102 for a basic remote check.
01Why it matters
Why Unmarried Couples in South Dakota Seek an Investigator
Married people have a divorce court to sort out property and support. Unmarried partners usually do not, and that gap is why many of them want facts early. A couple may share a lease in Sioux Falls, a pickup bought on one person's credit, a business started together or a child. When one partner starts disappearing on weekends, the other is left guessing about the relationship and the money. Our South Dakota surveillance services answer the first question, and records work answers the second.
The questions are practical. Is the partner seeing someone else, and is that person living in the home part of the week? Is shared money paying for it? Does the new companion have a history that matters around your child? Each one calls for a different mix of observation and research, and we scope only what your situation needs. If you are not ready to hire anyone, the guide to what investigators may do shows the boundaries we work within.
02Co-parenting
Unmarried Parents and Custody Under SDCL 25-4-45
Parents who never married stand on equal footing in a South Dakota custody case. SDCL 25-4-45 directs the court to the child's best interests in respect to temporal, mental and moral welfare and states that neither parent may be given preference over the other. A new relationship is not misconduct by itself. It becomes relevant when it affects the child, such as an unsafe companion staying overnight or a parent leaving young children alone to spend time elsewhere. Our custody investigations guide covers how courts weigh that evidence.
We plan these cases around the parenting schedule. Coverage is placed on the nights the other parent has the children, and observations stay limited to who is present, how long and whether supervision appears adequate. When a new partner's background is the worry, a $300 deep-dive check can surface protection orders or relevant convictions, and our witness vetting service can review anyone expected to testify. Custody orders can be modified at any time under the statute, so documented changes in circumstances can matter years after the first order.
04Before the wedding
Vetting a Fiance or Long-Term Partner Before You Commit
Some clients come to us before anything has gone wrong. An engagement, a move in together or a plan to buy a house is a reasonable time to confirm what you have been told. We check identity, prior marriages and divorces where court records are public, civil judgments, bankruptcy filings and criminal history, and we report what the records show without editorializing. A basic remote background check costs $102 and the deep-dive version $300. Our dating background check page lists exactly what each tier covers.
When the partner lives far away, surveillance may be needed to confirm that the life they describe exists. A partner working rotations out of state, deployed with a unit or living several hours away may be honest, or may have a second household. We coordinate coverage at the other end through our multi-state surveillance coordinators. Online-only relationships deserve extra caution, because romance schemes increasingly end in cryptocurrency requests, and our crypto scam investigators look at those patterns specifically.
05Local angle
College Towns, Ellsworth AFB and Relationships That Move Around
Many unmarried couples in South Dakota meet through its universities or the military. South Dakota State University in Brookings, the University of South Dakota in Vermillion, Black Hills State in Spearfish and Northern State in Aberdeen all bring young adults into small cities for a few years, and relationships often stretch across semesters and hometowns. Our Brookings private investigators and the Vermillion investigative team understand how campus schedules shape where people go and when.
Ellsworth Air Force Base, near Rapid City and Box Elder, is the planned first main operating base for the B-21 Raider and is expected to add about 1,600 Airmen. Military relationships involve deployments, temporary duty and frequent moves, which can make a partner's absences hard to read. We do not access military records or contact commands. We document off-base conduct lawfully, and our Box Elder investigators work the communities around the base where many service members live.
06Legal limits
Stalking, Recording and Trespass Limits That Protect Everyone
An unmarried partner has the same privacy protections as a spouse, and sometimes clients forget that once a relationship sours. Repeatedly following or harassing someone, including through electronic messages, can be stalking under SDCL 22-19A-1, a Class 1 misdemeanor for a first offense. Recording conversations you are not part of can violate SDCL 23A-35A-20. Peeking into a window on another person's property can violate SDCL 22-21-3. Our recording law explainer is a good starting point before you do anything on your own.
Our investigators observe from public places, never enter property after notice and never contact the subject. If your former partner is the one following or threatening you, the situation changes. A petition for a protection order under SDCL 22-19A-8 must be supported by a sworn affidavit of specific facts, and our stalking investigation team documents the pattern with dates, times and photographs. Threatening or harassing texts may also fall under SDCL 49-31-31, which our cyberbullying investigators review alongside the stalking statute.
07Price
What Unmarried Partner Infidelity Investigations Cost
Field surveillance runs $100 per hour, and most unmarried partner infidelity investigations need only a few well-placed shifts on the nights or weekends that do not add up. Travel and mileage are disclosed before work starts, and nothing is billed beyond the written scope without your approval. The South Dakota price list shows every rate, including the $102 and $300 background tiers that often accompany a surveillance file.
If the case turns into a lawsuit over property or a custody petition, an attorney can retain us for civil litigation support with a $1,000 minimum, and Delator Field Services can coordinate service of the papers with logged attempts and a signed affidavit. Our South Dakota legal paper service guide explains how service works under SDCL 15-6-4. The investigator cost guide shows how a realistic estimate is built before you commit.
Services
Unmarried Partner Investigation Services in South Dakota
- Partner activity surveillanceObservation during unexplained evenings, weekends or trips, documented with times, locations, vehicles and companions from public vantage points only and nothing more.Learn more
- Fiance and partner vettingBackground research on identity, prior marriages, judgments and criminal history, available as a $102 basic check or $300 deep-dive history.Learn more
- Co-parenting documentationCoverage during the other parent's scheduled time, limited to who is around the child and whether supervision appears adequate overnight.Learn more
- Shared asset tracingRecords work that follows money, vehicles or property a partner may have moved or hidden before or after a breakup.Learn more
- Taken vehicle locatesLawful documentation of where a truck or car titled to you is parked and who is driving it, prepared for counsel or police.Learn more
- Hotel meeting coverageArrival and departure documentation at motels and hotels across the state, without entering or looking into any guest room at any point.Learn more
- Long-distance verificationCoordinated coverage in another city or state to confirm whether a partner's described life, job and living situation are real.Learn more
- Harassment documentationEvidence of repeated following, threats or harassing messages from a former partner, organized to support a protection order petition with dates.Learn more
- Romance scam reviewInvestigation of an online partner who may not be who they claim, including requests for money, gift cards or cryptocurrency.Learn more
How it works
How an Unmarried Partner Investigation Works
- 01
Confidential call
You explain the relationship, living arrangements, any children or shared property and what has changed. We tell you plainly whether an investigation is likely to help.
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Scope in writing
We match the work to your question, whether that is surveillance, records research or both, and confirm the hours, travel and price before anything starts.
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Lawful fieldwork
Investigators observe from public places and research public records, logging each observation with a time stamp and keeping you updated during active coverage so you can adjust the plan.
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Clear findings
You receive a written report with photographs and records, including what we could not confirm, so you or your attorney can decide what comes next.
Compare
Typical Unmarried Partner Assignments in South Dakota
| Situation | Typical approach | Pricing basis |
|---|---|---|
| Cohabiting partner out late | Targeted evening surveillance | $100 per hour, scope in writing |
| Engagement or move-in vetting | Background research | $102 basic or $300 deep-dive |
| Co-parent's new companion | Parenting-time coverage plus check | $100 per hour; $300 deep-dive |
| Shared property disappearing | Asset and vehicle tracing | $1,000 minimum asset investigation |
| Partner living in another state | Coordinated destination coverage | $100 per hour plus disclosed travel |
Statewide coverage
Relationship Investigations Throughout South Dakota
We accept unmarried partner cases statewide. Southeast suburbs are covered by our Brandon investigators and the Tea private investigator team, and Lake County matters by our Madison investigators. In the northern Black Hills, our Spearfish surveillance team covers Lawrence County, including Lead and Deadwood. Wherever the case begins, the same legal limits, written scope and reporting format apply, and long rural drives are planned as separate field days with travel disclosed first. Reports read the same whether they come from Sioux Falls or the Black Hills.
FAQ
Frequently asked questions
Does it matter legally that we are not married?
For surveillance, not much. The same privacy, stalking and recording laws apply to everyone. What changes is how disputes are resolved: unmarried couples usually sort out property through contract or civil claims rather than divorce, and custody is decided under SDCL 25-4-45 with neither parent preferred. Your attorney can explain which path fits your situation.
Can you find out if my boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating?
Often, yes. If you know which nights or trips are unexplained, a few targeted shifts usually show where your partner goes and who they meet. We document from public places with times and photographs. We cannot read messages, access accounts or track phones, and we never contact your partner or the other person.
Is it legal to check my partner's phone in South Dakota?
It can create serious problems. Accessing someone else's accounts or recording their conversations without a party's consent may violate SDCL 23A-35A-20 and other laws, even if you share a home. Stop before you look, and talk to counsel. Our guide to recording someone in South Dakota explains the one-party consent rule.
Can the evidence help in a custody case between unmarried parents?
It can, when it relates to the child. Courts look at the child's best interests and may weigh harmful parental misconduct, stability and fitness. A partner's new relationship matters if it affects supervision or safety. We focus coverage on parenting time and report only what we observe. Your attorney decides how to present it.
What does a fiance background check include?
A basic $102 remote check confirms identity and searches core records. The $300 deep-dive adds prior marriages and divorces where public, civil judgments, bankruptcies, liens and a broader criminal history search. We report the findings neutrally. See our background check options for how our tiers compare across uses. Nothing is shared with the subject.
My ex took our shared truck. Can you help?
We can document where the vehicle is and who is using it, which helps your attorney or law enforcement act. Unauthorized use of a motor vehicle is generally a Class 1 misdemeanor under SDCL 22-30A-12. We do not repossess vehicles or confront anyone. Our stolen car investigators handle these cases.
What if my former partner is following me?
Write down every incident with the date, time and place, and save messages. Repeated following or harassment can be stalking under SDCL 22-19A-1, and a protection order petition under SDCL 22-19A-8 needs a sworn affidavit of specific facts. If you are in danger, call 911 first. We can then document the pattern lawfully.
How much do unmarried partner infidelity investigations cost?
Field work is $100 per hour with travel disclosed in advance. Many cases need two to four shifts. Background research adds $102 for a basic check or $300 for a deep-dive. Everything is quoted in writing first, and the South Dakota service pricing page lists every rate. Approval is required for any change.
Do you work near Ellsworth Air Force Base?
Yes. We work in Box Elder, Rapid City and the surrounding communities, documenting off-base conduct from public places. We do not contact a service member's command or seek military records. If the matter involves a protection order or custody filing, your attorney can advise on any military-specific procedures. Our reports follow the same format there.
Is Delator Group licensed for this work in South Dakota?
South Dakota has no statewide private investigator license, so the state does not license any firm. Delator Group is a licensed Tennessee private investigation firm and holds itself to that standard here, with written scopes, insurance and documented methods. Our investigator vetting checklist lists what to verify with any firm.
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